Hej, tak for det hurtige svar.
Jeg vil først sige tak for at have denne platform, jeg ved ikke rigtig meget om online gambling og de tilgængelige ressourcer, men jeg er glad for, at jeg stødte på denne hjemmeside.
Bare for at give en smule kontekst, blev jeg for et år siden opmærksom på min brors problem fra familiemedlemmer. Jeg vidste aldrig, at han spillede før dette, da vi aldrig blev opdraget med nogen, der spillede. Han havde til sidst tilstået de store mængder af gæld, han havde oparbejdet, og de talrige løgne, han havde fortalt. Han var udsat for en alvorlig depression og henvendte sig til mig for at få støtte.
Jeg havde meldt ham til en terapeut, og jeg tror, han lavede noget, der ligner AA-møder, måske er gamble anonymt, tror jeg, det hedder eller noget i den retning.
Jeg troede, at det endelig var kommet til en ende, da han efter et par måneder havde fortalt mig selv og min familie, at han havde et gamstop-forbud på plads, og han fik også at vide af sin terapeut eller sponsor eller en anden, som han ikke længere var i stand til at håndtere. penge, og at han skulle nominere nogen til at passe hans penge. Tilsyneladende er dette en del af de 12 trin eller noget i den retning, men det gav mening, hvis han ikke havde et kort og en netbank, så kan han bogstaveligt talt ikke spille online. Så det er omkring 6 måneder siden, hvor jeg har passet på hans penge, hans løn kommer ind på min bankkonto, og hvis han har brug for kontanter eller foretager betalinger, spørger han mig, og jeg gør dem på hans vegne.
På dette tidspunkt var jeg endelig tilfreds med, at hans spilproblem var løst, og jeg var tilfreds med de fremskridt, han havde gjort.
For cirka 3 måneder siden blev han afskediget og har været arbejdsløs siden. Jeg havde forsøgt at hjælpe ham med at komme på fode igen, men jeg lagde mærke til, at hans deprimerede attitude kom tilbage, men jeg bragte det ikke rigtigt frem.
Beklager den lange historie, men jeg håber, at dette hjælper alle parter med at forstå situationen. Her er problemet, i løbet af den sidste måned har der været flere £200-300 transaktioner til forskellige virksomheder. Dette rejste ingen flag, og jeg lagde ikke mærke til dette, da mine pengestrømme løber gennem de kort, han havde brugt. Selv banken rejste ikke i første omgang disse. Men i går blev jeg ringet op af banken og informerede mig om, at de havde bemærket nogle mistænkelige aktiviteter og bad mig bekræfte. Jeg genkendte ikke disse anklager.
Jeg gik derefter hjem og spurgte familien, om nogen havde brugt mit kort til disse transaktioner. Først indrømmede min bror ikke noget, men efter at have set mig stresset, kom han ren og forklarede alt.
Jeg opdaterede derefter banken, og de bad mig prøve at løse dette med de handlende selv. Nu er det sjove, at alle disse transaktioner, som han havde foretaget til kasinoet, dukker op i min bank som lovlige forretninger under forskellige firmanavne, hvorfor der ikke blev opdaget nogen mistænkelig aktivitet.
Jeg har sendt en e-mail til kasinoet og også rejst denne klage her. Jeg håber, at vi alle kan få dette løst og refunderet. Jeg var også chokeret over, at kasinoet godkendte så mange indbetalinger uden nogen id-bekræftelse. Den vedhæftede fil er der vilkår og betingelser, hvor det udtrykkeligt står, at id er verificeret ved oprettelse af konto, hvilket ikke er blevet gjort, hvilket er chokerende, og jeg er først lige ved at lære nu om disse forskellige spillelove for forskellige områder, jeg troede, at gamstop bare var en helhed internetblokering på spillesider.
uanset hvad, så sidder jeg nu fast midt i dette som et offer med mine forretningsopsparinger tabt på grund af svindel og at skulle tage tid ud af mit travle liv for at rette op på disse. Jeg er vred, chokeret, ked af det og meget mere. Jeg har aldrig følt så mange følelser før.
Hi , thanks for the quick reply.
I want to firstly say thank you for having this platform, I don’t really know much about online gambling and the resources available but i’m glad i came across this website.
Just to provide a bit of context, a year ago I became aware of my brother’s problem from family members. I never knew he gambled before this as we were never brought up with anyone that gambled. He had eventually confessed to the large amounts of debts he had accumulated and the numerous lies he had told. He was facing severe depression and turned to me for support.
i had enrolled him to a therapist and I believe he was doing something similar to AA meetings, maybe gamble’s anonymous i think it’s called or something along them lines.
I thought that it had finally come to an end as after a few months he had told myself and my family that he had a gamstop ban in place and also he was told by his therapist or sponsor or someone that he was no longer able to handle money and that he had to nominate someone to look after his money. Apparently this is part of the 12 steps or something along the lines but it made sense, if he didn’t have a card and online banking then quite literally he can’t do any betting online. So it’s been about 6 months now where i have looked after his money, his wages come in to my bank account and if he needs any cash or make payments, he asks me and i do them on his behalf.
At this point, I was finally satisfied that his gambling problem had all been resolved and i was happy with the progress he had made.
Approximately 3 months ago he was made redundant and has been unemployed since. I had tried to help him get back on his feet but I noticed his depressed attitude come back but didn’t really bring this up.
Apologies for the long back story but i hope this helps all parties understand the situation. Now here’s the issue, over the past month there has been multiple £200-300 transactions to different companies. This didn’t raise any flags and i did not notice this as my business cashflows run through the cards he had used. Even the bank did not initially raise these. However, yesterday i was called by the bank informing me that they had noticed some suspicious activities and asked me to confirm. I did not recognise these charges.
i then went home and asked the family if anyone had used my card for these transactions. At first my brother did not admit anything but after seeing me stressed out, he came clean and explained everything.
i then updated the bank and they told me to try to resolve this with the merchants themselves. Now the funny thing is, all these transactions that he had made to the casino show up in my bank as legitimate business under different business names hence why no suspicious activity was detected.
i have emailed the casino and also raised this complaint here. I hope we can all get this resolved and refunded. I was also shocked that the casino approved so many deposits without any id confirmation. The attachment is there terms and conditions where it explicitly states that id is verified upon account creation which has not been done, which is shocking and i am only just learning now about these different gambling laws for different areas, I thought gamstop was just a whole internet block on gambling sites.
regardless, I’m now stuck in the middle of this as a victim with my business savings lost to fraud and having to take time out of my busy life to fix these. I am angry, shocked, upset and so much more. I’ve never felt this much emotions before.
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